The Reason Why You'll Always Lose What You Are Not Ready to Lose
Life has a mysterious way of detaching us from what we desperately cling to. We often hold onto things, people, and situations with such intensity, fearing their loss, only to find that they inevitably slip through our fingers. Why? Because what we are not willing to lose will always be taken from us. This isn’t a punishment but a process—God’s way of refining us, stripping away mediocrity, and preparing us for higher levels of living. The Paradox of Fear and Loss The very thing we fear losing the most is what we are bound to lose. Fear itself is a magnet that attracts the very loss we dread. The more we clutch onto something, the more we signal to the universe and to God that we have misplaced our trust. Instead of having confidence in God’s provision and sovereignty, we find ourselves enslaved to the illusion of permanence. But nothing in life is truly permanent—except change. Loss as a Divine Promotion We see loss as a curse, but in God’s grand design, it is a form of pruning. J...